I've heard of stories about husbands in Vietnam notoriously having side action. It's to the point that it's somewhat socially expected/accepted. Some women I talk to on the streeet actually encourage such a lifestyle(not sure if they are BSing me). I've went on a date with a 44 yr old woman and she told me about her ex-husband's activies in which she was ok with them as long as he didn't knock em up. He did...which is why they are divorced. Have you guys ever heard about such lifestyle? Reason I asked is because I met a real sweet one. Good looking, from good family(very underrated marriage factor), young, fertile, educated, knows how to be a woman and hear her man. But marriage is a big step. It's a big commitment. I wouldn't have a problem if there were some "flexibility".