Success in Dating has a lot in common with success in Business. The successful people are positive and energetic. They have thick skin and balls of steel.
You have to be willing to smile day after day while getting rejected and striking out. Then something happens during this process… Changes start taking place.
You gain experience. With experience comes confidence. With confidence comes SUCCESS!!!
The people who are living their dreams had the balls to go out and make shit happen. You must be willing to step outside of your comfort zone and take risks.
Study, learn, try, fail, study more, try again… Keep moving forward!
No one is going to knock on your door and offer you the job of your dreams. That hot chick in the bar isn’t going to just drop to her knees and start blowing you in front of everyone.
Well, maybe if you’re in Thailand…
The moral here is don’t get all hung up on one girl you meet. I made this mistake early on. I wasted a ton of time trying to court this one fine young lady and it didn’t work out.
When you spend so much time and energy working towards a goal and you fail it’s natural to feel disappointed… But that’s life!
Everyone experiences heartbreak and failure in life. Not everyone is going to like you and not every date will end well. Don’t take it personal and let it get you down. There are so many beautiful girls who would be happy to go out with you. So have fun, talk to every girl you are interested in and see what works out.
Don’t be afraid to take chances. Don’t be afraid to fail. Don’t worry about trying new things. Yes you will make mistakes but you will learn and grow as a person in the process!
“Around here… We don’t look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things.” – Walt Disney
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